Everybody goes through these types of thoughts and struggles at some time in our lives.

Not everything is as easy as some people will have you believe, especially not advertisements, salesmen etc.  I remember when I first tried to play a guitar, it took me about a year before I could play a decent song the whole way through, and at the start it seemed absolutely impossible.

I also remember looking at my body in times gone by and thought “I am not happy with this, but how do I change it?”.

Having too much body fat and not enough lean muscle to stand out from a bunch of rakes at a tool shop, I decided to do something about it. I researched, bought products, books, watched videos, tried to discard the gold from the quartz and then did the most vital step, I made a PLAN and took ACTION.

Even if I had never learned a thing about nutrition, cardio or resistance training, if I had just made a plan and taken action, I would have learned along the way and eventually got the result I wanted anyway.

This is to prove that you can lose weight, you just aren’t wanting it bad enough.

You might last a week on a diet that Uncle Jobaba from Turkey recommended, but you aren’t strict enough and you end up blowing off the diet.

You heard about a new workout where you have to try and cover a mile faster every day for a week, but one day it rains so you blow it off as well.

You see an advertisement on a website for a pill that sheds body fat faster than Jenny Craig clients on Meth, but you are trying in vain because it won’t work.

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These are the most common excuses people have:

  • You have too many excuses about why something won’t work
  • You can’t stay on a diet for more than a week
  • The last time you ran was when your partner tried to make veggie burgers for dinner
  • You are too old, too young, too fat or not fat enough
  • You don’t have enough time because of (insert excuse reason here)
  • You have no money
  • You have too much money and so you think you don’t have time
  • If I wasn’t so stressed I could lose weight
  • My family won’t like it if I start dieting
  • If somebody helped me do some housework
  • If I could just rewind to last year

People think that if they have a good enough excuse then that they don’t have to do something. They feel that they have justified themselves and given themselves a reason to do nothing about their physical (and mental) state. Excuses are just a self-created alibi to fool ourselves into thinking we have no other option.

Excuses are for losers, lazy people, miserable people, martyrs, chicken littles and fools.

Real men and women, boys and girls make things happen no matter what their current circumstances.

Hell, I have been so broke that I can’t even afford the miserable $7 to get into my local gym so I have had to get creative. I could have just said “Oh well, I guess if I don’t have the money,it’ll have to wait”.

I have been through struggles in my life, I have been too depressed, too hyperactive, too mediocre, too tired, sick, injured, geees, find me somebody that hasn’t had struggles in some form or another.

If you can just see past your excuse or whatever reason you have that is currently saying “I can’t …”, ask yourself “How can I make this real?”.

Try asking “Why not?” or “How can I …”, instead of “I can’t.

So to help you with your struggle, go and check out my site, get some good ideas, and if you have no money, go dance in the street for a while.

Until next time, can the excuses and get real!!

And check out the home page to grab you free course download on how to shed body fat like crazy!

Johnny